After 15 beautiful years in Aiea, Hawaii we strike out once again. On to my "home" in Manhattan for new adventures. Hawaii and the people remain in our hearts.
After 15 beautiful years in Aiea, Hawaii we strike out once again. On to my "home" in Manhattan for new adventures. Hawaii and the people remain in our hearts.
Hi June, Our decision to go home early was a combination of many different circumstances. We found that it was extremely difficult to maintain a healthy relationship within the Thai culture, because they treat men and women so differently. Our age and placement was also a factor. It was difficult to be respected in Issan as a young married woman--who had no children. And my husband was treated like a God. Older couples have problems with the gender differences as well, but age helps with respect. There are 3 couples in group 118 who are still in Thailand, going strong. I don't think there's anything that can really prepare a person for the culture. And it's definately the culture that will challenge you more than anything. Good luck! My e-mail address is katevoss@gmail.com if you have any other questions :)
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Hi June,
Our decision to go home early was a combination of many different circumstances. We found that it was extremely difficult to maintain a healthy relationship within the Thai culture, because they treat men and women so differently. Our age and placement was also a factor. It was difficult to be respected in Issan as a young married woman--who had no children. And my husband was treated like a God. Older couples have problems with the gender differences as well, but age helps with respect. There are 3 couples in group 118 who are still in Thailand, going strong. I don't think there's anything that can really prepare a person for the culture. And it's definately the culture that will challenge you more than anything. Good luck! My e-mail address is katevoss@gmail.com if you have any other questions :)
Katie Voss
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